Ask Shade- My father had a secret family
Dear Shade, Please help us. Until my father’s unexpected demise (he slumped and died), we did not realise he had a secret family. We always thought his frequent visits to Ibadan were business related but apparently, we were wrong. The Ibadan woman bore him two sons and a daughter while my mother has just my […]
Ask Shade: How Do I Convince My Husband to Write a Will?
Hi Shade, I need your help to save my marriage. I ran into an old friend who bitterly recounted her ordeal in the hands of her in-laws after her husband’s unexpected death. I was greatly disturbed by her story, I kept wondering what would happen to us if anything happened to my husband. I run […]
Ask Shade: My Late Father’s Family Head Wants to Give the Family House to Our Irresponsible Half-Brother
Dear Shade, I came across a few of your previous articles and I am hopeful that you will be able to help with my dilemma. I am the first child of my father who recently passed away. He had two wives and five children; one son and four daughters including me. My mother, his first […]
Ask Shade: They Left Me Too Much To Handle
Hello Shade, My parents left me a huge inheritance when they passed away last year. I am just 22 and I don’t think I have enough experience and know-how to manage that kind of money yet, it’s too much to handle for me right now. I want to take a few years to further my […]
Ask Shade; Mr extended family wants assets
Dear Shade, I served as business manager to my boss and his wife before their sudden demise in a car accident. Most of their assets are in my care although they are named after their children. I have managed to ward off attempts by their extended family to take over the assets. My boss’ first […]
Ask Shade- Mrs. My Son is Irresponsible
Dear Shade, My husband and I have only one son who has refused to do anything serious with his life, because he assumes all of our wealth will come to him and there is no need for him to work. Although we intend for him to inherit all that we have, I want him to […]
